WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN

HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN :

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary...
not supplementary.

Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts..❤

Source : Facebook.

Happy 1st Year Anniversary!

Omaigad!

I almost forgot that my blog turn 1 years old on this month. I still remember the very 1st time I had my own domain. I can barely sleep and too excited until can't write anything on this blog. Too much idea came cross until don't know which one to be serve 1st. oya, to TOM , I'm very blessed to have such a helpful friend like you. Tom was the one who help in to get my own domain and setup my blog. I use to refer to him when there's something error in my blog. Even some said  Wordpress is much easier to handle than Blogspot because you just plugin here and there, but still there's a few things that make me confused. Nasib la ada si Tom.  Thank you very much, Tom. :)

I'm still writing in my old blog and currently I'm active on that blog. But,after this I hope to write regularly in here sebab yang ini blog berbayar..heuheuheu...

“My blog is a collection of answers people don’t want to hear to questions they didn’t ask.”
― Sebastyne Young

TeamWork

I don't know how but the word of teamwork has losing its meaning on these day. Am not going to point finger at anyone else like what peoples nowadays used to be. Maybe not today. The disappointment of failure teamwork and not to mention the lack communication among teams had the whole of me. Angry and pointing finger doesn't solve anything and I don't feel like to defense myself either. I don't know why but I just don't feel like want to.

 

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Just let by gone be by gone.

Gwiyomi

Hilang stress tengok video ni.




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rtAjjYwwopU

 

 

New Hope.

Oh April. I love you so much!!

Finally, I can breathe easy. A big relief indeed!.  There's so many reason why I love this month. Other than its my month of birth, a lot of good thing happen to me this past few days.

I'm glad that after a long await, finally I'm able to get my job confirmation. yay!

Hope everything was going well as planned. I started to believe. Started all over again.




 

Friday Quotes

images credit to Juxtapost.

Test-test baju and seluar.

Omaigad! Saya dah tidak kurus!

Frust.

Control Anger, Before Its Control You!

Anger is some kind of human emotion and its normal to be angry. But yet, when it gets out of control, it can lead to lots of problem such as problems at works, in personal relationship, your state of mind and your life.  Nahhh.. I most probably had this anger over controlled me now.I easily get mad even at small thing. cth: lambat angkat phone call. I'm surely sudah makin hamun. Ok. Bad for health and skins. I might get wrinkles before its time. Duh!

When you angry, when your blood pressure up and adrenaline and segala macam hormones naik,all you  want to do is to express your angry. Lantak la mau express macamana sekali pun. Janji terlepas segala amarah. Selalunya macam tu la saya buat. But, one thing I didn't realize I already hurt those people yang saya marah. Sorry dear. *sad*. I promised myself zillion times to control my anger, but fail each time. Sorry. I'm just human, of flesh and blood I made. And I made mistake. =_=

This anger management should be taken seriously from now on. I afraid saya akan jadi gila sendiri because of this uncontrolled-anger. Time marah-marah pun nampak sudah macam orang gila. Adeh.

I've make this deal with my bf. Ya. Just slapped me every time he catches me angry and kasih patah-patah pembaris. After that kiss to calm me. huahuahua..Eh. Not a good idea.

While browsing the internet about anger management, I found this. Technique to control anger! Might useful for someone like me who had problem with anger. Should practice these starting today. Gosh! I don't believe that I rely on those thing these day. Sign of aging. =_=

Anyway.. Happy working everybody.

Wordless Wednesday

Inside the train from Beaufort heading to Tenom. This lil girl tryin to take a nap.

Hello My Fave Month, April!

Oh my.

It's April already.

Time flies so fast.

Felt like time go faster as I get old. =_=

And, I haven't finish my photo blog challenge yet. ngee...

Hope there will be a lot of good things happen in this month.

Amen.